I clearly remember thinking “OMG! In 5 years I’ll be 20!!!” Well, OMG! Today is my birthday and I’m 60!!!!! I can hardly believe it. It seems like such a big milestone. Many times I still feel like I did when I was 19.
Thankfully, in the years that have passed since I was 15 I’ve learned a few things and I wouldn’t go back to those early years if I could. So today I reflect on what I’ve learned and at the end of this post I have a Birthday Gift for YOU.
Four Things I've Learned In The Last 60 Years
The first thing I’ve learned is that when I follow my intuition, my inner voice, it leads me in the right direction.
Sometimes that direction is scary as hell.
Like moving across the country to where I don’t know anyone as I did twice when I went to college and then grad school. But it gave me a chance to reinvent myself and leave behind those parts of my identity that no longer served me. It helped me break through some of my shyness too. Each time I grew immensely.
There was the time I decided to announce my resignation before I knew what I’d be doing next. I knew I was done with that job. It had taken me as far as it could. I stepped out on faith and took a leap. Along the way I made decisions that brought me closer to the position that opened up for me just before my resignation date.
Of course there was moving to the other side of the world as we did in coming to Tanzania almost a year ago. I've talked about that in other posts. It was challenging for sure but in my heart and soul I knew it was what we needed to do.
I've learned that getting older doesn’t have to mean getting sicker.
That wasn't always the case. Before Nana Kwaku opened my eyes to the power of the plant-based lifestyle I was scared. I was getting fatter every year. I figured it was just a matter of time before I found out what my chronic disease was going to be. That was 10 years ago. Now I'm healthier, thinner and feeling much better.
Along the way many other things changes as a result. Like my circle of friends and the work I do. Once again I grew and continue to grow as I continue to learn. Now when I see others my age who are really feeling that age due to illness, I am thankful that I not only learned the truth but that I took the step towards applying what I learned in my everyday life.
I realized that making mistakes is okay
In fact making mistakes is a good thing as long as you LEARN from them. It means you are trying. It's how you discover the right path. Like how getting lost when you're trying to find someplace helps you discover new parts of your city. Or slipping up and eating that cheese helps you realize what you need to watch out for in the future. Mistakes are not a sign of failure. They are a sign of progress.
If you are someone who values learning and growing like I do you are bound to make mistakes.
Lastly I’ve learned that there is beauty and wonder all around me if I choose to pay attention.
In fact I’ve learned that my attitude has a great impact on my experience. I can focus on the negative and what I don’t want. Or I can focus on what I do want. I can keep my focus on creating the life I want to live or I can focus on watching out for what I want to avoid.
Yes, we need to be aware. Yes, we need to be prepared. But I know I am happier and do a better job of building a life I love when my attention is on what I want that life to be like.
So that's what Ive learned over these last 60 years.
It all boils down really to taking steps everyday to be the best I can be. I like where it's taken me. I look forward to where else it will lead me.
One thing it has led me to do is to pour my heart and soul into helping people like you walk your own path to awesomeness. To health, happiness and the life you're striving to create for yourself.
In that spirit, today on MY birthday, here is my Birthday Present to YOU!
1. I've totally redesigned this site to make it easier to navigate and find what you need. Please have a look around and let me know what you think. There are still a few things to clean up but it's mostly done.
2. In appreciation of your being part of the Opare Institute family I have these special discounts for you between now and Monday July 10, 2017.
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